There is no general answer to this question. If a doctor chooses to practise as a gynaecologist and obstetrician, he or she, like a gynaecologist, has high expectations of themselves, commitment and often great idealism.
In difficult situations, a good gynaecologist will also support their patients emotionally. Conversely, in order to be able to help effectively, doctors need a certain emotional distance from their patients.
In short, the professional and human quality of treatment does not differ between (good) gynaecologists. The fact that some women feel more comfortable with a female gynaecologist is mainly due to the intimacy associated with gynaecological examinations and treatments.
Generally speaking, the "chemistry" between you and your doctor must be right. The decision in favour of a particular doctor and their practice often has to do with a personal "gut feeling".